Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Baker Joe's Tale

ALOHA
 Means "Welcome"







"A kiss that speaks volumes

 is seldom a first edition."

  Clare Whiting








"A tattoo is a true poetic creation,
 and is always more than meets the eye.
  As a tattoo is grounded on living skin,
 so its essence emotes a poignancy
 unique to the mortal human condition. "


V. Vale and Andrea Juno, Modern Primitives








"The world is divided into two kinds of people:
  those who have tattoos,
 and those who are afraid of people with tattoos."


Author Unknown










Note:
Names have been changed because I respect privacy - not because there's 'anything wrong with that.'

I like the little boutique hotel across the street from the beach.  It's the right size, human size, and the fact that Honolulu's flag-ship Gay Bar has moved there makes for an interesting dynamic.  

First of all, the lobby and the rest of the place is very clean & stylish - "Queer Eyed" you might say.

  And I know that the rainbow flag waving from the second floor is sort of a talisman that keeps intolerance out of the place.  I like tolerance, and though I'm no longer the sort who dances the night away, I do like stopping in during the day to shoot the breeze.

  Sometimes my husband and our friends shoot some daytime pool there.  Plus I get to see friends, and to make friends in the building. . . Me Mum's moving in the place this month.

 Everyone is welcome in the hotel and it is a mixed bunch of residents and visitors, so those who might be "uncomfortable" kind of self-select themselves OUT.

One morning Baker Joe came in to the bar and announced:

 "I think I've been discriminated against.
 Aw, never mind."

But we all wanted to know about it.  Joe is "straight appearing" so we were curious.  Turns out this talented pastry chef who works at one of the town's great restaurants had sought extra work at the local branch of a national Super Market Chain that boasts it's own bakery.  After a few days, they told him "he's not good enough."  An experienced pastry chef - right.

What no one knew is that I had just met and spoken to the head baker of a wholly local concern that is expanding.  Now, I speak with everyone!  Just go right up to them and act like we're all friends. Well aren't we?  Gotta know when to let folks be, but mostly I speak with everyone.

So I got on the phone to speak to the head baker fellow I'd met. But his boss, the founder and a local immigrant success story hero, Mr. Lamm, picked up thee phone. 

 What a thrill and privilege to speak with HIM! 
 I know I gushed a little.  He asked why I was calling, and I started telling him about baker Joe.

"Oh my wife and I love the bread at that restaurant."  (where Joe bakes)

They interviewed Joe;

And they hired him!


So speak with everyone.
  Being strangers is merely a feature and illusion of wearing a body.

  We'll all laugh about it in the next world.  

You know, you and I are friends without having met
 in-body.

Perhaps our blogging friendships are a foretaste of Heaven?


      Warmly, cloudia




29 comments:

Barrie said...

I'd love to see that hotel! And I like your philosophy of making friends with everyone.

gigi-hawaii said...

Good job, Cloudia! I am so glad he got the job. It never hurts to put in a good word for somebody.

Jeannie said...

Good for you!

BALLET NEWS said...

yes that's very true, well done you !

The Weaver of Grass said...

Love your quotes Cloudia - and love blogging friendships too.

Hattie said...

This is the way to fight discrimination: with warm friendship and helping each other.

Anonymous said...

An early Christmas Story - how wonderful. Thank you. Please have a good Wednesday.

daily athens

DeniseinVA said...

That's wonderful that he got the job thanks to your kindness of looking out for him. The hotel is a place I would enjoy staying because if there is tolerance under its roof, that goes a long way with me. I love reading your words Cloudia, Aloha!

Hilary said...

Oh good for you. I wish I had your guts or confidence to just step up and start chatting with people like that. I'm just glad that there's good folks who do. Thanks for that.

Teresa said...

Great story, Cloudia. And I like your quotes about not being afraid of people with tatoos. My mommy got tatoos in her old age. I'm not afraid of people with tatoos, but I am afraid of getting one meself...

wenn said...

great story!

Junosmom said...

Yes, my bloggy friend, though we've not met.

magiceye said...

indeed!!!!

namaste /\ from mumbai
aloha!!

Anonymous said...

Ah, what a heart-warming story! Well done you.

Windsmoke. said...

You've done a good deed and should be proud of yourself getting baker Joe a job, well done pat yourself on the back. Blogging friendships are just as important as face to face friendships.

Pietro Brosio said...

What a nice and uplifting story, Cloudia!
About the quotes, I find so true "The world is divided into two kinds of people: those who have tattoos, and those who are afraid of people with tattoos."
Have a beautiful day!

Daliana Pacuraru said...

"The world is divided into two kinds of people:
those who have tattoos,
and those who are afraid of people with tattoos."

ha ha...
Good words!
Better to have tattoos all of us!
Aloha!

Leovi said...

A nice story, friendship is essential. Greetings.

bichonpawz said...

What a wonderful and heart-warming story!! Hope all's well in your corner Cloudia!!
Jeanne of bichonpawz

RONW said...

Names have been changed because I respect privacy....

I keep trying to remind people of that. Especially for the Internet.

Akelamalu said...

How cool is that Tattoo van??? :0

Charles Gramlich said...

People are strange, when you're a stranger.

Bubblewench said...

Always a beautiful story, Glad it worked out for him.

Daryl said...

You are a mensch

Cloudia said...

You are TREASURE in my life!!!!!!

Feisty Crone said...

another well told tale, Cloudia!

Marguerite said...

Great story! Love that watery mosaic, too! Cheers, cher!

Cloudia said...

Bonjour!

Aloha Tony said...

It's so beautiful the way you write. I'll have to start reading these daily. You are such an inspiring person. Thank you.