Back in the day,
there was no rainbow flag,
no signs, no hoopla.
Gay bars were hidden away from view,
dingy dives (often) operated by criminals
and regularly raided by the vice squad.
Patrons were arrested, roughed up,
had their names and sometimes faces,
published in the local papers.
Then they lost their jobs,
family support, apartments.
The only place the GLBT people could gather
and be themselves
in lives that consisted of prudent hiding
of the most fundamental personal things,
was the bar.
Being gay was a crime,
a sin, a moral weakness.
44 years ago this month
the Stonewall Inn,
a gay bar in New York City
was raided around 3am.
This time, the patrons had enough!
Office workers,
shopkeepers, and drag queens
in full regalia
battled the cops
for several days.
Yesterday, the US Supreme Court
declared that
if you are a gay couple,
legally married by the laws
of the US State you live in,
then the federal government
will NO LONGER
discriminate against you.
Social Security benefits, survivorship,
federal taxes,
military benefits,
all will acknowledge
same sex couples
along with opposite sex couples.
I was 16, and 90 miles away
when Stonewall happened.
I marched in the first
Gay Liberation March
in Philadelphia
in the early 70's.
Today, I rallied
with about a 1000 Hawaii friends
at the state capitol,
to celebrate this day.
The fight for marriage equality
is not over
in Hawaii,
or perhaps your state or province.
But determined people,
despised, powerless, abused,
discriminated against,
summarily fired,
beaten and killed,
called mentally ill,
can change all that.
I played a part,
I've seen it happen.
So speak up for what you believe.
I helped to change the world,
You do too, every day.
Make it count!
YOU can read more about
Stonewall HERE
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Thanks for visiting!
Warmly, cloudia
Things sometimes do improve for the better.
ReplyDeleteHeartwarming. I hope that our country comes to its senses soon. I have marched, I will march - and I continue to hope...
ReplyDeleteIt's always good to stand up for what you believe, it can and does change things, thank goodness. x
ReplyDeleteHooray! (I was a bit worried after the court ditched parts of the voting act.)
ReplyDeleteMahalo for your part to help the country turn towards some sanity and equality. With even younger kids these days determining their outward gender, I think the schools need more "Cloudia Counselors" types to help. Hope the social changes can filter down to hospice, as the prejudice permeates the lifespan. It will take a few more years to realign some folks' attitudes.
Onward for more hope! Aloha, DrumMajor
Somebody's been pullin' on that cat's tail; it's as long as it's body! DrumMajor
ReplyDeleteGreetings from Assam, India
ReplyDeleteFreedom at last, long live a Stonewall free.
ReplyDeletesmiles. i was happy to see the decision yesterday...and appreciate all that stand up for what is right not just for themselves but their fellow humans....smiles
ReplyDeletealoha from va
Aloha Cloudia, Every single day we can move closer, with the help of one another. Anything and everything that is worth fighting for, or having is just a step away. We need less walls being built and few more handshakes and hugs across the world, NOW!
ReplyDeleteYay people power!..can work miracles !!
ReplyDeletebless you.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely things have come a long way. It's good to remember that.
ReplyDeleteLovely post and well done you!
ReplyDeleteSuch a great step was taken yesterday. Hurray - and finally!
Yes. This is something to celebrate. It's progress for all of us. Nice that you marched .
ReplyDeleteI love your spirit here. Proof that we can make a difference. Wonderful!
ReplyDeleteEach of you brings me joy!
ReplyDeleteThanks very much for being here :-)
When we learn to love and accept ALL people equally, that is when I feel like we truly are living in divine light. Hopefully the court's ruling will light the way for love, acceptance, and equality for all! I'm proud to say that I live in a state where gay marriage is legal! Go you, and thank you for your contributions!
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Yes, there is still more to be done, but what great progress! Did you see Frank Bruni's op-ed in the NYTimes today? It was a nice comment on this landmark .
ReplyDeleteW moim kraju długo tak nie będzie niestety. Pozdrawiam.
ReplyDeleteIn my country, so there will be a long time unfortunately. Yours.
Sanity prevails. Peace.
ReplyDeleteNamaste /\ from Mumbai
Aloha
It's about time people can be who they are and celebrate who they are and love each other without recrimination. YAY!
ReplyDeleteA long way to go in my country. Aloha! Thanks for the info.
ReplyDeleteI do consider this nation lucky that Republican's attempts to ban gay marriage only occurred after the Supreme Court invalidated any state or fed laws on sodomy in the early 2000s with Lawrence v Texas.
ReplyDeleteConservatives only pretended to care about "traditional marriage" when they couldn't punish gay people for being gay anymore.
George W. Bush tried to ban gay marriage via a Constitutional amendment and failed big time in 2006. Now in 2013 support has grown more than ten-fold.
Imagine what would of happened if they tried to create such an amendment in more homophobic times.
And yet the GOP calls itself the party of "freedom".
Yae, Cloudia! Good for you!!! I have several friends with children who are gay. I've supported their efforts to love their partners and have it acknowledged.
ReplyDeleteGood for you! We've had gay marriage for 10 years in Canada. I'm surprised how some can drag this down in the US.
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