Other People

A  L  O  H  A !

" The secret

 of many a success 

in the world

 resides
in insight

 into the moods 

of others
and  tact

 in dealing with

 them. "

J. G. Holland

  “ The well bred

 contradict 

other people.

 The wise 

contradict 

themselves. ”

 Oscar Wilde

" Somebody Else's Problem 

 (also known as SEP)

 is a condition where

 individuals/populations 

 choose to decentralize themselves 

from an issue

 that may be in critical need

 of recognition. "

 Wikipedia

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 “ Knowing your own

 darkness

 is the best method

 for dealing with 

the darknesses of  

other people. ” 

 Carl Gustav Jung

" The more we deny 

that we have a dark side,

 the more power

 it has 

over us. "

Sheryl Lee

 “  Most people

 are other people. 

Their thoughts 

are someone else's

 opinions,

 their lives 

a mimicry,

 their passions

 a quotation.  ”

 Oscar Wilde 

“ Without deep reflection

 one knows

 from daily life 

that one exists

 for other people .” 

Albert Einstein 

  >  <  }  }  ( ° >

Something good

 happened to me;

I got depressed.

It made me realize:

"Hey! 

This is how I used to feel

ALL the time."

Now I don't -

but HOW did I 

live with that?!

How did I ever 

LIVE

like that?

Now,

 for the most part,

I'm grateful 

& enjoying.

Hell

used to be

Other People.

Now I feel

that as long as there

are Others Like

You Folks

in my life,

that Heaven

will always be

reachable.

Hearing

hateful, limited, false,

damaging words

disturbs my equilibrium.

And there are 

PLENTY today.

So how do I CARE,

but remain unruffled

by the darker

aspects of humanity?

How can I respond

to falsehood

without losing

my light

to anger?

As we mature

sometimes we feel

like we've seen it all

before.

How do we share

something other than

frustration,

disappointment,

disillusionment

with others

(especially younger people)

? 

One thing I've learned

is that the next

comment,

the next blog post,

that I read

can ignite magic!

Often,

just knowing

that friends care

changes the 

world.

Thanks for being

a force for good

in our circle,

and in my

life!

         Warmly, cloudia

Recondite

abstruse - obscure - secret - deep

 A  L  O  H  A !

Thanks for visiting!
                    Warmly, cloudia

Secret Places

A  L  O  H  A !

 " Such, such were the joys
When we all, girls and boys,
In our youth time were seen
On the Echoing Green ."

Blake

 “ All truly great thoughts

 are conceived

 while walking ”

 Friedrich Nietzsche

" Today was good. 

 Today was fun. 

Tomorrow is another one."
Dr. Seuss 

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Researchers at the University of Wisconsin
conducted an experiment 

with girls ages 7 to 12
in which they exposed the girls

 to the stress of speaking
to a group of strangers.
Afterward, a third of the girls

 were hugged by their mothers,
a third spoke to mom on the phone,
and a third 

watched a film.
While measured stress rose

 in the movie watchers,
the stress in both other groups
dropped equally.
"That a simple phone call
could have this 

physiological effect on oxytocin
is really exciting."
Co-investigator Seth Pollak 

told Scientific American.

Your visits make me feel

 wonderful,
and that's a scientific 

FACT!

'Take Peace & Laughs - Leave Your Comment'

Thanks for visiting!

                    Warmly, cloudia

Lady Ambienta

A  L  O  H  A !

“ I believe in the imagination. 

What I cannot

 see

 is infinitely more

 important
than what I 

can see.”

Duane Michals

" Being alive 

is 

the meaning. "

  Joseph Campbell

" Irresponsibility

 is part of the pleasure

 of all art;
 it is the part 

the schools 

cannot recognize. "

James Joyce

  =^..^=   

Thanks for visiting!

                  Warmly, cloudia

So I Wander

A  L  O  H  A !

Every moment,

every second,

so full of 

fullness,

questions, insight

musing,

drifting,

and visceral beauty-

No wonder

I get nothing

done.

The light of 

eternity

gilds all

like afternoon

Action

in this climate of

seems worse

than useless-

“The struggle itself towards the heights
 is enough to fill a man's heart.
One must imagine Sisyphus happy.”
 Albert Camus

“ Few tasks are more like
the torture of Sisyphus
than housework, with its endless
 repetition:
the clean becomes soiled,
the soiled is made clean,
over and over,
day after day ”
 Simone de Beauvoir

Lovely couple!

the bickering

of intellectual

giants;

No wonder she founded

feminism.

So I wander

the halls of 

Blogdom

visiting so very

many

different places -

Finding comforts

of real companionship -

- true friends - 

whose voices

I never hear,

just your

hearts.

  =^..^= 

Your kind visit

 adds an irreplaceable

 element

 to my day: 

YOU!  

Thanks pal

                     Warmly, cloudia

Noctilucent

A  L  O  H  A !

" A man travels the world over
 in search of what he needs
 and returns home
 to find it. "

George Moore

" Sometimes 

you have to play
 a long time
to be able to play
like yourself. "
  
 Miles Davis

" A Bird came down the Walk--
He did not know I saw--
He bit an Angleworm in halves "


Emily Dickinson

" When I'm sleeping

 I do a lot of 

living.  "

David Johansen

" We can destroy

 ourselves 

by cynicism

 and disillusion,

 just as effectively

 as by 

bombs. "

Kenneth Clark

     <(-'.'-)>

' Take Peace & Laughs - Leave Your Comment '

                 Warmly, cloudia

Barefoot on the Road Less Traveled

A  L  O  H  A !

 "  We inhabit ourselves 

without valuing ourselves,
unable to see

 that here, now,
 this very moment
is sacred;
 but once it's

 gone -
- its value is

 incontestable. "

Joyce Carol Oates

" Just cause you got 

the monkey off your back
doesn't mean the circus

 has left town. "

George Carlin

" People are like
 stained-glass windows.
 They sparkle and shine
 when the sun is out,
 but when the darkness sets in
their true beauty
 is revealed only
 if there is light
from within.  "

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

=^.^=

Thank YOU

For visiting today!

Warmly, cloudia