Showing posts with label Gay Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gay Marriage. Show all posts

Friday, June 26, 2015

Historic Reflections

A  L  O  H  A !
Hawaii's Radiant Nature finds it's way even into dark places

" Their hope is 
not to be condemned 
to live in loneliness, 
excluded from one of 
civilization's oldest institutions, 
They ask for equal dignity
 in the eyes of the law. 
The [USA]Constitution 
grants them that right. "
                 Justice Anthony Kennedy
                                 United States Supreme Court


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Sunday, March 2, 2014

Veterans of the Culture Wars

A    L    O    H    A  !
" But 
there’s nothing wrong 
with old age 
that a curious mind, 
an 
active life and 
a glass of wine 
with a friend 
cannot cure. "


Friko 
Link









GEN Silent Trailer 2.0 from Stu Maddux on Vimeo

These people suffered
 for being different 
in a way that people today 
cannot comprehend.

The culture they grew up in
called them sick, evil,
& worse. 

Most were 
estranged from
(or unknown to)
 their families.

They showed 
real courage
standing up 
for each other. 

They changed the way 
the world
looks at Diversity
and Human Rights. 
THIS generation
that we are talking about.

We all live the freedom 
that they won. 

They paid enormous
economic,
emotional,
& legal costs.

They nursed their
 closest friends
who died horribly
in the first nightmare years
of the AIDS Epidemic.

They wear no medals.
They draw no pensions.

But can't we see
that at least
they live with 
D I G N I T Y
that they have
 certainly earned
for others - 
for us?

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Thursday, January 2, 2014

New Year, New Laws

 A L O H A ! 
Father/Son Color & Clogs

 "I will honor Christmas
 in my heart, 
and try to keep it 
all the year."

Charles Dickens








The REST of the Picture (and family)
Click to see those New Year Day SMILES


 "Kindness,
 I've discovered,
 is everything
 in life. "

Isaac Bashevis Singer 










Married by me, Jan 1st 2014

"By the power vested in me
by the State of Hawaii
just last month,
I now pronounce you
spouses and wives
before these your friends
Legally
To your military command,
ALL of it
EVERYTHING!

(One is in the military,
the other is now a 
military spouse)



  =^..^=        



As of Jan 1 2014

  Illinois police
cannot fly drones
without a warrant;
also becoming the 
13th state to prohibit 
handheld cellphones 
while driving.

Legal marijuana
is now for sale 
in Colorado.

Transgender children
may use the 
school bathroom
and play sports
in California.

Friendly, Humane
Francis is Pope
in Rome.

Connecticut has
tighter gun control,
and raises the 
minimum wage to $8.70 an hour,
New Jersey to $8.25
New York and Rhode Island to $8. 
Nine states automatically raise
their minimum wage because they 
index it to inflation. 


And I performed 
a wedding.

What is NEW
for YOU
this year?

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Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Hawaii Passes Marriage Equity!



A celebration dance - the Electric Slide,
 a staple in Gay bars and events :-) 
Made me cry to see it at the State Capitol
Rotunda on this occasion!

Hawaii is floating a foot above the Pacific today
and may never come down.

God Bless our opponents too.
Justice won.

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Saturday, November 9, 2013

Exciting New Day

A  L  O  H  A !


The air smells even sweeter today in Hawaii
and the rainbows above Honolulu
were never more meaningful!

Marriage Equity
should be signed into 
Hawaii law this week!

We are SO proud of this
young representative
for his wisdom:

History Before Our Eyes

Watching History Unfold




"HONOLULU — When, as most everyone expects, Gov. Neil Abercrombie signs into law same-sex marriage here in the coming days, it may almost seem like a routine event. Hawaii is poised to be among 16 states to approve gay marriage, along with Illinois and shortly after Minnesota, New Jersey and Rhode Island.
     But the step in Hawaii has special resonance because the contemporary battle over same-sex marriage was born here two decades ago. Such marriages existed nowhere when Ninia Baehr and Genora Dancel, along with two other couples, filed what seemed like an utterly quixotic lawsuit seeking a marriage license. To near universal shock, Hawaii’s Supreme Court granted them a victory in 1993, ruling that a refusal to allow gay and lesbian couples to marry was discriminatory and illegal."

New York Times LINK


It is 9:50pm (Hawaiian Time) Friday November 8th.

LIVE LEGILATIVE VOTING RIGHT NOW  HERE

Friday, November 8, 2013

Honolulu Capitol Views

A  L  O  H  A !
 Standing on the Mauka (Mountain Side) steps
of the Hawaii State Capitol
looking over St. Damien's shoulder
(Link)
towards the memorial flame
through a row of royal palms
with Punchbowl Crater behind.
(Link)

Father Damien did amazing "Mother Teresa" type
work in Hawaii during the 19th Century.
This statue was erected BEFORE
his sainthood.

"Leprosy is beginning to be very prevalent here. 
 There are many men covered with it.  
It does not cause death at once, 
but it is rarely cured.  
The disease is very dangerous, 
because it is highly contagious."

  Father Damien 
to his family back home.  

"All Lepers must 
report to the government health authorities
 within fourteen days from this date 
for inspection
 and final banishment
 to Molokai" 

Official Government Proclamation







The center of the Capitol is not a dome
but  an open courtyard
ringed by offices and 
open lanai (balcony).








The House and Senate "sides" 
are across the open courtyard 
formed by the space between them.

As you can see from the curve here,
each chamber recalls the volcanoes
that formed these islands.

From the courtyard, you can look
down through big windows
at the legislative activity
in the legislative chambers
below (inside the volcano!)












Behind this grand banyan tree
 beyond the Makai
(Ocean side) of the capitol
stands Iolani Palace (Link)
where Hawaiian Royalty
ruled these islands in a 
constitutional monarchy.

Queen Liliuokalani, our last Queen 
(deposed shamefully)
stands watch over the daily affairs
 of today's
people and government.
She is an inspiration to great leadership.

Incidentally, many claim to have seen Liliuo's
ghost in this area, and in the corridors of the
modern capitol building too!




She seems to be 
ushering these people inside
to do their work.
(A nice aloha shirt with dress slacks
are business wear for men in Honolulu)

Liliuo also left us
this famous song

Aloha Oe by Tia Carrere on Grooveshark

Listen and REALLY hear it
for the FIRST TIME!












Many of us have been spending 
a lot of time at the capitol
lately, as the Special Session 
called by the governor 
for Marriage Equality
proceeds.

THOUSANDS of people testified.
We heard LOTS of dumb and hurtful things.
We also saw our friends tell their truth, 
and lots of really illuminating
and moving testimony
while many of us watched 
57 hours of hearings
live and streaming.
I sent in written testimony.

Hawaii seems really poised
to legalize marriage
between two adults
regardless of gender.

There are "people of faith"
on both sides of the issue,
but one side is loud, angry,
not listening,
SCARY!

But you know what?
That day is OVER
in the civilized world
(listening, Putin?).

I'll post as soon as the Bill
is passed by both houses,
because the Gov called the sess
and wants to sign the Bill.



ALOHA, my dear friends!
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Thursday, October 31, 2013

Seeing History Unfold

A L O H A!
 Is more than a word, 
it is a concept, a philosophy of life, 
a rule of behaviour, 
a deep and sacred truth 
that is at once simple, obvious 
and powerful 
in any context. 


The Hawaiian People, 
it is said, recognized 
the spirit of Jesus 
immediately, but wondered 
at the cold behavior 
of the missionaries 





It was not a perfect society,
holding slaves, fighting wars,
ruled over by a class
of "superiors."
In other words,
it was like other
cultures around the globe
in that time.



What I am praising
is the inclusion and
courtesy that was
their heartbeat.

Vestiges of ALOHA 
remain.

They have blessed,
educated,
and changed
me;
For the better.








This week
our legislature
seems poised
to extend marriage equality
to all.

Hearings in special session
have run the gamut
from: "Gays are trying
to take over the world,
shame on you for taking
bribes to help them."

To wonderful testimony
from local families,
faith leaders,
seniors,
children,
as to why
equality and inclusion
are Pono
(the Hawaiian word
for "Right, righteous.")




For once, the dignity
of our local senators
(the majority of them!)
has risen to a
statesmanlike stature.
Senator Hee asked a 
very nice older woman
how she reconciled
the disagreement
between different churches
as to the bill.
She could not answer.

Nor could the person
who testified that 
legislative staff
was infiltrated with gays
when the same senator
asked:
"Which of them do I work with?
*Pause*
Thought you said you knew."





The US Supreme Court ruling,
as well as marriage equality
from South Africa to Iowa
have made a huge change
to local leaders.

Hawaii will vote: aloha to ALL
this week
or next.

My friends, my betters,
my forerunners,
 martyrs,
 and I
are poised to
succeed
in a long long long long long
struggle.

The world will not end.
Promise!



"It's historic in the sense that there's a huge paradigm shift, but it's a shift that, in my opinion, bends the arc of justice towards the right way,
It takes us to a new level of equal rights."

Hawaii State Sen. Clayton Hee 

" Kanaka Maoli*
 have been conditioned for so long
 to think and act like foreigners
 that we have allowed the meaning
 and intent of our words, traditions and philosophies 
to be replaced by neo-Christian beliefs 
and used to further a 
Western political agenda 
on our islands."

Hinaleimoana Wong-Kalu 
More about Hina:
HERE


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* Kanaka Maoli is what the original Hawaiian people call themselves in their own Language. 
Back in the 19th century, Hawaiian sailors were often listed on crew manifest as "Kanaka" or "Kanak)

Thursday, June 27, 2013

44 Years From Stonewall

A  L  O  H  A !

Back in the day,
 there was no rainbow flag,
 no signs, no hoopla. 







Gay bars were hidden away from view,
dingy dives (often) operated by criminals
 and regularly raided by the vice squad.
Patrons were arrested, roughed up,
 had their names and sometimes faces,
 published in the local papers.
Then they lost their jobs,
 family support, apartments.










The only place the GLBT people could gather 
and be themselves
 in lives that consisted of prudent hiding
of  the most fundamental personal things,
was the bar.

Being gay was a crime,
 a sin, a moral weakness.

44 years ago this month
 the Stonewall Inn,
a gay bar in New York City 
was raided around 3am.


This time, the patrons had enough! 
Office workers,
shopkeepers, and drag queens
 in full regalia 
battled the cops
for several days.







Yesterday, the US Supreme Court 
declared that
if you are a gay couple, 
legally married by the laws
of the US State you live in,
then the federal government
 will NO LONGER
discriminate against you.







Social Security benefits, survivorship,
 federal taxes,
military benefits,
all will acknowledge
 same sex couples
along with opposite sex couples.








I was 16, and 90 miles away
 when Stonewall happened.
I marched in the first
Gay Liberation March
in Philadelphia
in the early 70's.

Today, I rallied 
with about a 1000 Hawaii friends
at the state capitol,
to celebrate this day. 

The fight for marriage equality
 is not over
in Hawaii, 
or perhaps your state or province.

But determined people,
despised, powerless, abused,
discriminated against,
summarily fired,
beaten and killed,
called mentally ill,
can change all that.

I played a part,

I've seen it happen.

So speak up for what you believe.

I helped to change the world,
You do too, every day.
Make it count!

YOU can read more about 
Stonewall  HERE
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