Friday, September 21, 2018

Hawaii Photo of the Day

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Not A Reason ✔

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"Disagreement is not
a reason to dismiss
another human being."
     Justice Sonia Sotomayor

"Busyness is not a reason for 
not getting other things done. 
It is an excuse for not claiming 
your true priorities."
                Alan Cohen

"We're our own worst enemy. 
You doubt yourself more than 
anybody else ever will. 
If you can get past that, 
you can be successful."
         Michael Strahan

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Thursday, September 20, 2018

Hawaii Photo of the Day

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Ordinary Treasures 🎁

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Auntie Genoa Keawe
“Ordinary riches can be stolen, 
real riches cannot. 
In your soul are infinitely 
precious things that cannot 
be taken from you.” 

          Oscar Wilde

"Calmness of mind is 
one of the beautiful 
jewels of wisdom."
             James Allen

“The treasures in our lives, 
are found and are gathered in 
the moments that we experience 
and that we create. Stop and feel the minute you are living in right now: 
what does the wind feel like? 
What do the trees look like? 
What does that smile mean? 
Do you feel there is love? 
Gather your treasures.” 
             C. JoyBell C.

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Wednesday, September 19, 2018

Hawaii Photo of the Day

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Manu O Ku
Honolulu's Official Bird

You Win, I Win, or WE Win

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"Those who think it is permissible to 
tell white lies soon grow color-blind."
             Austin O'Malley


     Do you want to be "right" 
or be effective? 
 You can be technically correct, 
but the person you argue with 
is telling you something valuable.  
They are telling you what is 
Emotionally True to them, 
what matters most to them.  
They are telling you exactly what 
you need to understand, in order 
to forge an agreement.

     Can we even really hear each other anymore?

     Yes, you may be "correct" on your facts, 
but be dead wrong in your attitude, 
behavior, results.  This is a Democracy, 
not a winner-takes-all  demolition derby.  
Or is it?

     We do not need to agree on everything, 
in order to live agreeably.
     But we do need to understand 
what really motivates people 
who hold opinions that seem 
incompatible with our own.

     To do that, we need to regard them 
once again as people.not as 
stereotypes in a morality play.  
We need, in a real sense,
to 'love' our neighbor as 
we do ourselves; That is: 
as basically good persons;  
Persons who deserve 
to be listened to.

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Link to a BBC Article on the topic of Paltering