Showing posts with label adolescence. Show all posts
Showing posts with label adolescence. Show all posts

Monday, December 23, 2019

Sunbathing at the Rainbow

A  L  O  H  A !
 Sunbathing at the Rainbow Tower 
(World's largest tile mural)

The mind is its own place, and 
in itself can make a heaven of hell, 
a hell of heaven.  
    John Milton


















 Gratitude

Dissolves fear.


















A smile
Thins the veil
Between Heaven & Earth,
Between souls.







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Love You,
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Mele Kalikimaka!





Wednesday, June 19, 2013

A Song that Saved My Life

A L O H A ! 
    30. Bridge Over troubled water by Simon And Garfunkel on Grooveshark
"An education
 isn't how much 
you have committed 
to memory, 
or even how much 
you know. 
It's being able 
to differentiate 
between what you do know 
and what you don't."

       Anatole France






" The more I see
 the less I know 
for sure. "

John Lennon 







"Contagious conversations
change
the world."

Daniel Pink

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When I was a depressed youth,
Bridge Over Troubled Waters
resonated
with my aimlessness,
hopelessness,
pain.

Listening to the song
made me feel better,
helped me to find
an artist's dignity
in my endurance.

If I could time travel
to advise
my younger self,
I would tell her
that it all
works out.
"Life is short,
enjoy it."

What would You
tell the child
You were?

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Sunday, March 25, 2012

My Secret - The REAL X-Factor

A   L   O   H   A  !

Song for Peace by Paul Horn on Grooveshark
Click for the 'POW"
" -when you are Black
White People often don't see
YOU-
they look right through you,
at the dark & scary face
that lurks in the open windows
of their vivid
imaginations. "

Leonard Pitts Jr.














" The more theatrical
the story you hear
and the more it divides
the world into
"Goodies" vs. "Baddies,"
the less reliable
that story
is going to be. "

Felix Salmon
 













" There are no hopeless situations;
There are only those
 who have grown
helpless
about them. "

Claire Boothe Luce














" It is one of the most beautiful compensations
of this life,
that no one can sincerely
try to help another
without helping
himself. "

Ralph Waldo Emerson




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For a few years
 I had the privilege
of facilitating an after-school group
for at risk kids.

If they could feel some belonging,
some caring,
and get some basic information
about protecting themselves
it would all be for the good.

I knew that the activities,
and the food I brought,
didn't matter as much
as being there 
every time,
on time.

In time
the kids blossomed.

When they were home sick,
or skipping class,
they would sneak INTO school
to attend!

In time
they started to talk
about real stuff.
We got beyond
 High School posturing.

Eventually,
 my boss wanted me to write
a 'curriculum'
so we could share
what was evidently
working.

I knew that I could write
everything we did,
but what we did
was not the essence of it.

The secret began
when each kid 
entered the room.

I smiled at them
sincerely
[a big smile]
to show them
that seeing them
made me HAPPY.

They saw that they
mattered;
and in at least one place
they were always celebrated.

It couldn't be artificial.
That smile,
and the heart behind it
had to be
sincere.

How could I write
that?


One time
I met with a school principal (a PhD)
and a psychologist
to conference on one of my kids.

After we talked for a while,
the kid was sent in.

Realizing in that moment
that 3 adults
were sitting in a row
 waiting,

I jumped up 
to take her hand
and pulled up a chair
to sit beside her
FACING the authorities
together.


Together
we accomplished
what had to be done.


Later the Principal told me:
"You are the consummate youth worker!"


Sometimes
on a bad day
when I wonder where all my
promise
went,
I think back on the kids.

No one got AIDS,
though several were subsistence
sex workers.

They ALL Graduated High School.

 
Several went on to college!

One of the 'kids'
is now an on-line editor
for People Magazine!


The real X-Factor
is treating people
( sincerely
and simply )
as if you are
 HAPPY
to see them!


And here's the strange
and wonderful part:

In time
you WILL be happy
to see every person.

They will feel it.
And so will you.

 

Your life will change.


And You will be
[even more of]
an influence
for
GOOD!

What do YOU think?
Join us in comments


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Sunday, November 20, 2011

Natalie Wood

 ALOHA !
The Sun Is Gray by Natalie Wood on Grooveshark




" At night, 
when the sky is full of stars
 and the sea is still 
you get the wonderful sensation
 that you are floating in space. " 


Natalie Wood


















"When you are sorrowful
 look again in your heart, 
and you shall  see
that in truth
you are weeping for that
which has been your
delight. "

 Kahlil Gibran















This is the boat from which Natalie departed this life,
docked here in Honolulu

"I like being on the water
 or near the water,
 but not in the water."

Natalie Wood




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Perhaps
 it is because she grew up before our eyes
in the movies
that Natalie Wood seemed more than
a "movie star."


There was something
 very individual,
honest,
vulnerable,
and familiar
 about her.



She was beautiful too,
but in an unassuming,
un-brassy way.




Like an ancient hero
she was taken too soon,
 taken into 
the realm of 
the immortals.





The boat from upon which
 she sailed
from land for the last time
has been re-sold,
and docked here in Honolulu
for many years.



Now that the case surrounding her death
is being re-examined
officials are coming over from California
to scrutinize the vessel.




Meteorology
was my college lab science.
The professor told us
that he would give us extra credit
for every weather-related news story
we clipped/printed
and brought to class.



"How many weather stories can there BE?"
I wondered.


But that turned out to be
just what he was teaching us:
the importance of weather,
( once you notice it )
all over the world
week after week.

I had no problem
finding such a story
every week,
all semester.


Have YOU found
that visiting Hawaii
 via this blog
has been a little 
like that?



Here on the most remote islands
on Earth,
my life MUST be quite different
from yours
-and yet-
there always seems to be
something
that I find
 to present to 
Y O U.



In this case,
my connection to Natalie
goes beyond sharing a harbor 
for many years
with the 'death boat.'






When the film
"Inside Daisy Clover" came out
I was the same age
 as the character she played:
a tom-boy who mostly raised herself.





If you watch,
really watch,
the performance at the beginning
 of the video below,
you will see an extraordinary
"something"
that spoke deeply to me
as an adolescent;



A yearning,
a determination,
a 'self-pumping up'
an unconventionality
that I really identified with.




You're Gonna Hear From ME ! 
Thanks for letting us hear from
Y O U 
in comments

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Inside Daisy Clover HERE