Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Characters and Plots


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"How much easier it is to be critical than to be correct."
Benjamin Disraeli







"Everybody is ignorant, only on different subjects."
Will Rogers







"When you make a world tolerable for yourself, you make a world tolerable for others."
Anais Nin







Youth has a great narrative drive and plot: Get bigger, get freer; find out about life, others and self. Everything's exciting: the "best" or the "worst" EVER!


Adolescence is a love story, a comedy, a drama, a farce. A collage of fears, first times, and aspirations. All seem tailor-made for a story arc, for songs, or movies; not to mention fodder for gossip.


Girl chases guy, or the other way around.

The world must be saved! (Again).

Grownups just don't understand. We'll never be like them!

Then they kiss, and the credits roll.

All this, mind you, takes place in the first thirty or so years.


Then, offstage, distracted by work and by children

-by the negotiations and nuances of marriage -

we tread the mill Monday through Friday,

Fall to Summer vacation, year after year.

Till we look up to realize with surprise that we are not the young stars anymore.

But we're still years (God willing) from the end!

Though the best roles seem to be passing us by, to younger actors.

Our cozy character work fits us like a glove.

Besides: it pays the bills.


A fixation on beauty is common to the young, engendering an involuntary aversion to the blemishes and badges of age.


But fortunately (skeptics will call it self-serving) we see at last the deeper beauties of maturity. The light from within illuminates the merely physical with lovely survior-ness.


The plot lines of maturity are not necessarily dark, it just takes greater skills to write them. Maturity in a writer is not a bad thing. As illusion is stripped away, we find the truffles of satisfaction where we may. Unexpectedly we cherish the homely hearth that once seemed a prison.

A L O H A! Cloudia


14 comments:

claude said...

I like your way to blend photos and quotes. I like very much the sky with the coconuttree.

the walking man said...

Youth, it would appear is the topic of the day throughout the web-o-sphere.

Had there been no youth there would be no Age of Reason.

Anonymous said...

Hi, CC! You seem pensive these days. What's up? Ah, sometimes, I have to shake myself to see that my life ain't bad, even below the surface.

Turn thy head toward the sun and breathe deeply...

Anonymous said...

Ah, to be young and fearless, and chasing the world....must try this again! What beach has the artwork? I haven't seen the man-made wave barriers before. Mahalo for re-phrasing old times. Beautiful words. DrumMajor

Brother Tobias said...

Well observed and expressed, Cloudia. Trouble is, I'm still thinking, 'Grownups just won't understand', even as I wear the bottoms of my trousers rolled.

Dave King said...

Hey, come on! A fixation on beauty is common to all of us, it's just that what is beautiful changes.

Charles Gramlich said...

Beauty is a very strange thing. I'm suceptible to both standard concepts of beauty and to a very strange beauty.

Deborah Godin said...

Reminds me of that Beatles song, Ob-La-Di Ob-La-Da! Really neat post!!

Maria Verivaki said...

will rogers is so right - great quote today from him

Feisty Crone said...

The Disraeli quote is so true, Cloudia. Great photos.

Cloudia said...

Bonjour Claude; coconuts to you ;-)

Walking Man: Youth sees with fresh eyes.

Thanks, GiGi.

Drum Major: I never saw big sand sculpture like that on Waikiki before. Caught my eye, though you all might just enjoy seeing it.

Brother T: We have glimpsed the grown ups and they are . . . US! Nice, apt Elliot, Mr. Prufrock!

Dave King: Right you are!

Charles: You wife's profile photo looks conventionally quite pretty so I assume the unconventional beauty you speak of is intellectual? You are a fascinating guy!

Deborah: Cool association! Now that song is stuck in my head. Thanks? LOL

Dear Med Kiwi, So great to see you! Thanks.

Love you, Gran-

carmilevy said...

Your words of wisdom make me feel infinitely better about my own chronological advancement.

Time isn't the enemy. It's a tool to be leveraged for personal growth.

magiceye said...

well said! well pictured!
loved your musings!!

namaste/aloha!

Barbara Martin said...

Youth have always questioned adults as not understanding their angst. We do but realize that whatever is the worst moment will resolve itself.