Just For Today

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JUST FOR TODAY. . .

photos may be clickedDon't worry. . . Just for today,

Don't Anger. . . Just for Today. . .

Comfort Spiral is NOT about positive thinking!

It is more like the last day of school

as you begin to suspect how wonderful your life really can be.

Dare to believe it.

Tons of illusion, mistaken beliefs

and "shoulds"

can finally be taken off of your shoulders. . .

can finally be lain down. . . "All truth passes through three stages:

First it is ridiculed.

Second, it is violently opposed.

Third, it is accepted as being self-evident."

Schopenhauer

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Fearless Gentleness:

Every day annoyances crop up naturally.

They are often triggers for the less-than-perfect sides of our nature. But exploding never accomplishes anything positive.

Holding a lid on rage causes physical/mental problems.

But all this can be safely dissipated.

De-escalate.

Then the provocation becomes fuel!

It can propel you into the heights of well being.

Each time you refuse to "rise to the bait," you develop your

perspective and detachment "muscles."

Lots of complications are avoided this way!

Every time you handle some "problem" with relaxed dignity,

powerful inner detachment and increased freedom of spirit

become yours.

All the kinetic energy of the situation will flow non-

destructively to your strength and merit,

and also to collective world peace.

Really. . .

Try to greet each complication as a "work out opportunity."

YOU WILL GROW HAPPIER!

The Hawaiians say: "He Mea Iki'" it's just a small thing.

Come, walk along the shoreline of your heart. . .

It's ALL small things!

ALOHA!

A L O H A !

Good To See YOU -

Saturday Friend

Empty Beach, Ted Trimmer

“Don't grow up too quickly,

lest you forget how much you love the beach.”

Michelle Held

"Nostalgia is like a grammar lesson:

you find the present tense, but the past perfect!"

Owens Lee Pomeroy

Spider Web, Ted Trimmer

"I finally figured out

that the only reason to be alive

is to enjoy it."

Rita Mae Brown

A Light Heart?

ALOHA!

It's Friday here in

H O N O L U L U

W E L C O M E!

So Glad YOU Could Make It!

"In a country well governed,

poverty is something to be ashamed of.

In a country badly governed,

wealth is something to be ashamed of."

-Kung Fu Tzu (Confucious)

"What must I allow to die today

in order to generate more life

tomorrow."

Clara Pinkola Estes,

Jungian

"Our battered suitcases were piled on the sidewalk again;

we had longer ways to go. But no matter, the road is life."

Jack Kerouac."

The Egyptians taught
That after death
One’s heart would be weighed in the balance
Against a feather
That symbol of high places
And lightness.
What is a light heart?
Perhaps it is one that loves life
One that takes difficulties easily
And so lightens them.
A heart that loves deeply
Seems to fly
And so rightly rises
In the eyes of the gods
When weighed against a feather.

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Works For Me

A L O H A!

Welcome to Thursday

in

W A I K I K I

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Kalani and a Wee Friend

"It is our failure to accept people exactly as they

are that gives us pain in a relationship."

Central Intermediate School

on formerly royal land (Princess Ruth's house)

and directly across the street from Dog

the Bounty Hunter's office (as seen on TV).

"We must reveal ourselves . . .

to find out how lovable we really are."

Sappy, Sticky Breadfruit in the Honolulu Sun

"The ego is a belief in finite resources.

Whenever love is added to any part of the system,

there is an increase in every part."

"We need less posturing and more genuine charisma."

"Something amazing happens when we surrender and just love. We melt into another world, a realm of power already within us. The world changes when we change. The world softens when we soften. The world loves us when we choose to love the world."

All Quotes Today:

Marianne Williamson

I pass these thoughts along to you, not in an attitude of hopefulness, or positive wishes, but as powerful truths that have proved themselves to me in undeniable ways.

Here, YOU use these tools!

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Where Are We Going?

Stephen Grellet

1773-1855

"I expect to pass though this world but once.

Any good therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to my fellow-creature, let me do it now.

Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again."
- Stephen Grellet

"He who rejects change is the architect of decay.

The only human institution which rejects progress is the cemetery."

Harold Wilson

"They must often change,

who would be constant in happiness or wisdom."

Confucius

"The birds are molting.

If only man could molt also - his mind once a year its errors,

his heart once a year its useless passions."

James Allen






"The man who never alters his opinion is like standing water,

and breeds reptiles of the mind."

William Blake



Étienne de Grellet du Mabillier fled France at the time of the Revolution, making his way to the young United States in 1795. Like generations of immigrants after, he Americanized his name, becoming Stephen Grellet.

It was in the town of Newtown (later absorbed into Queens, New York City) that he discovered the Society of Friends, known popularly as the "Quakers, joining the fellowship in 1796. He was recorded a minister in 1798.

His success as a New York City businessman afforded him the freedom to follow his heart, and so he made missionary tours in the United States and later to every major nation in Europe where he had the opportunity to meet with Kings, Queens and Prime Ministers.

Though I first read his published journal many years ago, I have never forgotten one big take-away message. Mr. Grellet and his missionary companions often found the heads of state very receptive to their message of pacifism and square dealing among people. What shocked me as a youngster, and has stayed with me all these years, was the frankness of these "absolute" albeit constitutional rulers when they told the Friends that their nations, indeed the whole international

system, were so constituted that war and inequality were inevitable. Sadly, these "rulers" could do nothing but preside over the "way things are." For to suggest otherwise, or to lead in another direction, would be tantamount to abdication.

The king can lead only where the nation wants to go.

Today, here in the US, we have an intelligent President who wants to lead us somewhere different. As he wrestles with major problems that took years to develop, it is seemingly popular to blame him for not repairing EVERYTHING in a matter of months.

Doesn't he have the cooperation of all patriotic Americans, after all? Oh wait, that's right: the (dis-)loyal opposition has dredged the sewers for every crackpot slur and scare tactic with which to derange a frightened populace. The President was born in Kenya, he is a Muslim, he is a socialist, the economic collapse was his fault (though it commenced under his predecessor). NONE OF THAT IS TRUE! But facts, it seems, have ceased to matter to too many.

As Stephen Grellet learned centuries ago, it is a thankless task to try and improve the world. Every day there are hopeful signs of social improvement in the US for anyone paying attention. But the president's detractors would rather fault him for graciously accepting an unsought and prestigious world prize than to collaborate in providing health care to our fellow citizens thus protecting us from bankruptcy and early death that too often result from the system we have now.

People get the government they deserve.

I hope we snap out of our adolescent moodiness in time to move forward together. The alternative is too awful to contemplate.

Thanks for listening! What do YOU think?

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Waikiki Halloween

ALOHA

Night is Gathering

click on photos ! Beware the gathering gloom

"Shadows of a thousand years rise again unseen

Voices whisper in the trees,

'Tonight is Halloween!'"

Dexter Kozen

Vampires Loom Above the Avenue




"Come with me All Hallow's night
We'll frighten everyone in sight
Such pranks for once, are justified
And fun and frolic amplified."

19th Century Halloween postcard





Normal Looking People Prepare

"In the United States today, there is a pervasive tendency

to treat children as adults, and adults as children. . .

The result is unruly children and childish adults."

Thomas Szasz

The Ghouls Are Out!


"From ghoulies and ghosties
And long-leggedy beasties
And things that go bump in the night,
Good Lord, deliver us!"
Scottish Saying

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And Then There Was One

A L O H A

Friends!

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“Fortunate people often have very favorable beginnings and very tragic endings. What matters isn't being applauded when you arrive - for that is common -

but being missed when you leave.”
Baltasar Gracian








“The secret to a rich life is to have more beginnings
than endings.”
David Weinbaum

“The greatest stories are those that resonate our beginnings and intuit our endings, our mysterious origins and our numinous destinies, and dissolve them both into one.”
Ben Okri

The first sugar mill in Hawaii was opened in Koloa Kauai in 1835.

As late as 1968 there were 26 mills producing more than 1 million tons of the sweet stuff. In 1970 5,900 workers cultivated 239,000 acres. By 2000 only 1,000 workers on 60,000 acres remained. According to the USDA, this year there remain only 21,700 acres of waving green.

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On Friday, Gay & Robinson of Kauai (1889) brought in their last crop, leaving Maui's Hawaiian Commercial & Sugar's 800 employees as the last of the breed.

The by now familiar scene unfolded: convoys of cane trucks, sounding their horns, drove past cheering locals. Many if not most of those folks were 3rd generation sugar workers, a living connection with Hawaii's plantation past.

The Chinese, Japanese, Koreans, Filipinos, and Portuguese all came to work the land, bringing their customs, languages and food: major ingredients of the unique "local" flavor that IS Hawaii. The plate lunch grew from their shared lunches, our beloved pidgin way of talking (Hawaiian Creole English) came from mingling on the plantation too.

Yes, King Sugar remade these islands. It would be impossible to imagine what we would be without it.

Fortunately for the workers, many of them will remain in their cozy plantation housing (less than $104 a month for a family house, and $10 a year for water).

We never thought we'd miss the hard work and paternalistic atmosphere of the plantation, it was not the work our grandparents wanted for us, but now there is more than a hint of nostalgia as a rich, long, way of life fades into history.

"I told them to get an education. I didn't want them working hard like me. This is hard work." Charles "Red" Carveiro, 3rd generation sugar man from 1961 to 2002, speaking of his own children.

"I just don't know what I'm gonna do." Frederick Bacio, age 70

The economy, and rising value of land, drove the closure.

I remember the signs: "Slow Moving Cane Trucks" and the dusty, red-caked trucks themselves. Little did I know then that I was stuck behind history itself. When Brother Israel Kamakawiwoole died, a similar convoy of trucks circumnavigated our Oahu while mourning crowds lined the roads.

"It was a very, very tough day for me. We tried everything to keep the company going. The (Robinson) family lost a lot of money over the last 5 years."

E. Alan Kennet, G&R president

Seed corn companies, DOW Agribusiness (bio-tech), and Pioneer Hi-Bred, are leasing some of the land and will keep on a handful of the workers. There is even talk of growing sugar again, this times as ethanol, and as bio-mass that will be burned to produce electricity. No one yet knows how this will all work out, but many of us hope to see acres and acres of waving sugar cane on Kauai again.

"The sugar land is now in corn or some other crop,

So hopefully Kauai will keep it's beautiful green vistas."

George Costa, Kauai Office of Economic Development

"That's been a goal of our family, to work hard for a better life. But never forget your roots and the values to work hard and respect your neighbors."

Pat Pablo, state public health nurse who comes from

a "sugar family."

"You are the salt of the Earth, You made Kauai and Hawaii what it is."

Congressional Rep. Neil Abercrombie.

Good night, sweet prince!

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