Showing posts with label civility. Show all posts
Showing posts with label civility. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 19, 2019

Magic Matters

A  L  O  H  A !
Civilization is just a slow process 
of learning to be kind.
    Charles L. Lucas






















What a child doesn't receive 
he can seldom later give. 
    P.D. James























N. Calif.
Matter is not lacking in magic, 
matter is magic.” 
          Terence McKenna







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Love You,
                                     cloudia












Monday, September 7, 2015

Beyond-ing

A  L  O  H  A  

“ The problem is not 
to find the answer, it's
 to face the answer. ”
                                     Terence McKenna












" Ima be 
on the next level.
 Ima be rockin
 over that bass treble. "
                               Black Eyed Peas 







Waikiki
“Beyond the picket fences 
and the oil wells,
 the happy endings,
 and the fairy tales, 
is the reality 
of shattered lives
 and broken dreams. 
We carry on.”
                             Tim McGraw











Marin County CA
" Civilization is just a 
slow process of
 learning to be kind. "
               Charles L. Lucas

Linking to
Our World Tuesday

Thank YOU
for kindly visiting!
                  Warmly, cloudia

Sunday, December 7, 2014

I Director

A  L  O  H  A !
" Simple
 can be harder
 than complex. "
                   Steve Jobs









 "If you ever find yourself 
in the wrong story, 
leave."  
                   Mo Willems








"The two of them were 
very proud of that scene 
when it was done 
because it seemed 
simpler than it was. "
                      Paris Barclay, 
                        Director


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During Holiday Seasons
there is a lot of work,
expectations, and pressure
in the air.

Routines
are disrupted;
And some of us
rely on our routines
to regulate our days.

We may be separated
from companions,
or worse:
our companion animals!

When I get tense
It's does me good 
to remember
that I am director
of my own movie.

Call a five minute break.
Assess the scene.

Sometimes, it's what
DOESN'T occur
that makes the piece!
[so it comes off simpler
than it is]

Don't play someone else's
role they've created for you.

Just tell yourself:
"CUT."

Then play it your way,
or not at all.

If voices be raised,
yours need not
be one of them.

Remember:
You are the Star
of your own movie!


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Thank You
for your appearance
here!
                 Warmly, cloudia


Friday, December 5, 2014

What I'm Really Saying

A L O H A !
 What A Wonderful World by Israel Kamakawiwoʻole on Grooveshark
 However long the night

The dawn will break   
                       African Proverb 









" The colors of the rainbow 
so pretty in the sky
And also on the faces 
of people passing by
I see friends shaking hands 
saying 'How do you do?'
They're really saying 
I, 
I love you "

Songwriters
ARLEN, HAROLD / HARBURG, E /
Published by
Lyrics © EMI Music 










 Click on photo to see entire composition

"My work is not accidental 

and not planned. "
                    Hans Hofmann 








I like the man seen 
through the rip in the fence!

When eating vegetables, 

remember the one 

who planted them.
                    Chinese Proverb



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I even invented
a term for it:
"Grooming Language."

When primates are
together, they
groom one another.
Simple enough.

But when the job
is done,
they carry on
touching, stroking,
attending.

strengthens social bonds
and health.

I have not 
combed out my 
neighbors-

BUT

The routine things
we say,
that have no
practical utility
are Grooming Language.

No one needs
to say it's a cold
[or hot] day"
And few really
CARE about 
"How is your day going"?

In New York
it is quick:
"How you doin?"

And the answer
is: "Good."
Just as quick,
but effective.

"God be with you"
['Good bye']
"Aloha"
O Genki Desu Ka?
[How is your health?]

May seem routine,
even pointless sometimes.
As pointless as breathing
over and OVER again!

So How's it goin'?

What I'm really saying?

I Love You,
Friend!

Thanks for visiting,
                                                          cloudia









Friday, November 7, 2014

Wandering Pondering

A  L  O  H  A !

"-  perhaps the most persistent call 
is to love one another 
with compassion 
and open arms, 
even and especially 
when we find ourselves 
face to face 
with people we 
don't understand." 
               Matthew Myer Boulton

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Thank YOU
For Wandering,
Pondering
Here With Us!
             Warmly, cloudia     

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Today We Vote

A  L  O  H  A !

I love Hawaii!

Election signs for:

A Hapa-Haole Appearing local guy link

 Marshall

Hawaiian

Brickwood 
[ my State Senator ]

Chinese-American: 
[ by way of Malaysia]  

Djou

Local Ethnic-Japanese American: 

Takai


ALL on a popular 
local family operated 
Chinese Restaurant!

THAT'S HAWAII STYLE-

If it is Election Day
near You:
V O T E !


People died for this.

In wars over seas,
in civil rights actions
 at home.

The first western democracy
in ancient Greece
was a direct 
meet-argue-vote
situation.

Not everyone participated
in the discussion,
or the voting
YET.
But the basic idea
was good.

As the Vikings,
the  Iroquois,
and other First Nations
 knew as well.

Town Meetings today,
even family meetings,
show the survival of this
basic impulse
to have a say
in the things that effect
our lives;
To disagree, yet cooperate.

Thanks for voting
for our Comfort Spiral
by visiting here.
            Warmly, cloudia

Monday, July 7, 2014

Emotion Rebellion

A   L   O   H   A !
Click to visit among the clouds
Why are so many of us
 angry?
Disillusioned?

Why is compromise
a dirty word,
when in our private lives
we work out compromises
every minute
to keep life 
harmonious?







People:
Our deep emotional side
feels cheated and lied to.

That deepest, most ancient
and Human portion of ourselves
has systematically been 
devalued.

Don't get me wrong,
I'm glad to enjoy
our scientific age
and it's myriad,
undeniable blessings.

But something vital has been lost
- fairly recently -
and we all feel it.

Visiting "less developed" places
we encounter smiles,
and resilience of joy,
that our culture lacks.








Because we have 
ignored the care
and feeding of Our Humanity,
our emotional unity
that very ancient part of us
is on life support.

All that's left
is a vestigial patriotism
played like a fiddle
by those who profit 
from war.

We roll it our for parades.








In the absence of wider 
Shared Values that empower
  our emotional side's best,
a forest of technicalities,
convolutions, and
Procedures
holds all the power
in day to day life.

This state of affairs
frustrates our most
basic connection to
"Right & Wrong." 

We are estranged,
governed by those who
believe that they,
not we,
see the Big Picture.

They after all are
Leaders.
We used to call them
Servants of the Public.
But the clash with reality
has retired that expression.

Where are they leading us?








Instead our emotions,
uneducated & ignored,
are played upon by experts
causing us to purchase,
wear, vote, live out 
conformity.

Though our shared public 
conformity has shattered,
this has not deterred 
the self proclaimed "Elite."

Our public narratives
have wandered far afield.

The Center
will Not Hold.

And perhaps this too
is by design,
because the voters
united
will never be defeated.

So they need us to be
stirred up and confused.

Clarity would show us
how robbed we are!

They have thwarted 
and channeled our
wise discontents,
cleverly making of us
 impotent clans opposing
each other.

We waste our political energies
in argument
accomplishing
Nothing.

This too keeps the 
machine of society
 humming
in the  
 predetermined direction.

Happy or angry
it's all the same to them:
we go to work
we buy their shit
we repeat their lies.










In the 60's Grace Slick
and the Jefferson Airplane sang:
"Feed Your Head."

Today the revolutionary
evolutionary
radical & conservative
Thing To Do:

FEED YOUR HEART.

Ignore the phony oppositions,
stop arguing with your neighbor,
and hear their desperate heart
that knows something is wrong.

The talismans of guns,
prepping for disaster
and hating those godless
liberals
are really talismans:
hopeful charms protecting
the same things liberals value!
Family, Liberty, American Values
(which have always included
both welcoming
and beating immigrants.
Sad but true.)

So we continue;
Pushing the boulder of decency
and civic equity
up the steep incline
of loud, wrong
"explanations."

Who do those explanations
serve?

Not You,
Not Me.

One message of the 60's
still rings true:

" All the world over, so easy to see
People everywhere just wanna be free
I can't understand it, so simple to me
People everywhere just got to be free
Ah, ah, yeah . . . ah, ah, yeah
If there's a man who is down
 and needs a helping hand
All it takes is you to understand 
and to see him through "

Young Rascals 
People Got To Be Free
[ Lyrics ]









Together. Here.
You & Me-

We Are Living It 

Every Day

Can You Feel the Power?

                        Fondly, cloudia